Life is primarily about security. We want to feel secure and protected. Our brain loves security. We do everything to make sure we feel safe. We want to be secure in relationships, we want to be safe with friends, have a protected environment, safe cars :-) etc. Of course we want to stay good, it's great to be secure. But...
The path of healing is usually not just an upward trend curve. It is a winding and sometimes very painful path.
If someone is often in love with unavailable people, there may be some deeper wounding where emotional needs were not met in childhood.
Nothing is immutable and if you think you're stuck somewhere or you don't have what you want, it doesn't mean it can't be changed. We create our own reality. Maybe something has happened to you at some point and you say to yourself, "I'm useless anymore" or "Other people may have a nice life, but I'm cursed" Yes, that's how...
We humans are already like that, we have our stories, something happens to us and it's nice to have someone to tell the story to, to share it with. However, not everyone is lucky enough to be truly listened to and heard by others. If you have a story and you share it, if it's painful and...
Sometimes in life it happens that we feel alone, that no one understands and supports us.
Patterns are thought patterns in this description. The brain operates on completely different waves in childhood than it does in adulthood. Particularly in early childhood, roughly 0-6 years of age, we are on wavelengths where we take in everything from our surroundings as a matter of course. We don't yet have the ability to subject a given "truth"...
Sometimes, in order to bring about a turn for the better in our lives, it is helpful to question what our core beliefs about ourselves are.
Why is it that the relationship is easy for someone, and the other one is trying and somehow not succeeding for the world. Relationships are at the level of friendship, relationships at work, in business, in partnership. And we're going to look now at partnerships, because those are the ones that are the greatest teachers for a great many people....
To be able to make the right decision whether one wants a coach or a therapist, one needs to know what is actually offered by whom. In fact, there is a plethora of options on the market today as to who to approach.
